I must Relax and Release my Mind

Somehow I have been doing things for other people without realising I am just creating problems. But to my mind, it is for other people's sake and also for their own good. But in the end, I am just feeling that I am the one who wants to change and not the person concerned. Sigh...

Sometimes I feel, why am I doing so much things knowing the person wouldn't even care or notice it. I feel such a fool when I woke up this morning thinking about it. I should start my day feeling refreshed and feeling positive because I'm having such a good job wih such a good life except worrying about other people's stuffs. Considering it to be other people's stuff because it is simply out of my control of doing so. I just can lend a hand but decision will always be of their own's. Sigh...

I need to get rid of this from my mind. But I can't seem to do that... Please help.